Curang
Kecurangan (kata dasar: curang) atau keselingkuhan/perselingkuhan (kata dasar: selingkuh [sĕ-ling-kuh][1]) difahamkan sebagai tindakan melanggar persetiaan hubungan emosi atau seks yang terjalin bersama pasangan secara khusus atau eksklusif sesama mereka[2] tanpa rasa jujur si pelaku kepada pasangan tersebut[3]:maksud I sehingga mengakibatkan perasaan marah, cemburu, dan persaingan.[4]
Kesan dampak
Secara emosi
Keterlibatan seseorang dalam mengkhianati hubungan intim dengan pasangan boleh mendatangkan seberapa kesan mendalam apabila kegiatan tersebut diketahui:[5]
- Rasa malu muncul sebagai akibat perasaan terhina dan direndahkan, malah menyangka diri sebagai penyebab pencurangan lalu meningkatnya kemungkinan mencari-cari kesalahan dalam diri sendiri tanpa disedari.
- Kebuntuan fikiran kerana menghadapi situasi yang menjejaskan keutuhan hubungan yang terjalin sesama diri
- Kekesalan yang muncul berikutan rasa kecewa diri terhadap ketidaksetiaan pasangan sampai melakukan tindakan curang sedemikian
Aspek undang-undang
Tindakan pencurangan yang disaksikan pasangan atau orang kenalan mampu memberi kesan utama kepada penelitian dan pemberian keputusan dalam mengurus kes-kes cerai termasuk pampasan harta warisan, penjagaan anak-anak hasil hubungan bersama, kelayakan mendapat alimoni dan sebagainya.
Pandangan mengikut agama
Agama Islam
Agama Kristian
- Mazhab Katolik
- Mazhab Protestan
Lihat juga
Nota
- ^ "'selingkuh' - Maklumat Kata". Pusat Rujukan Persuratan Melayu. Dewan Bahasa dan Pustaka Malaysia. Dicapai pada 14 Januari 2020.
- ^ Weeks, Gerald R; Gambescia, Nancy; Jenkins, Robert E (2003). Treating Infidelity: Therapeutic Dilemmas and Effective Strategies. New York: W.W. Norton & Co. m/s. ix. ISBN 978-0-393-70388-7. OCLC 52838917.CS1 maint: ref=harv (link)
- ^ "'curang' - Maklumat Kata". Pusat Rujukan Persuratan Melayu. Dewan Bahasa dan Pustaka Malaysia. Dicapai pada 14 Januari 2020.
- ^ "Effects of sex, sexual orientation, infidelity expectations, and love on distress related to emotional and sexual infidelity". Journal of Marital and Family Therapy. 40 (1): 68–91. 2012. doi:10.1111/j.1752-0606.2012.00331.x. PMID 25059413.
- ^ Merdeka. Emosi Akibat Perselingkuhan
Bacaan lanjut
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- Adult attachment and patterns of extradyadic involvement Family Process, Dec 2004 by Elizabeth S. Allen, Donald H. Baucom
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- Managing Infidelity: A Cross-Cultural Perspective by Anne Buckmaster, William Jankowiak, M. Diane Nell; Ethnology, Vol. 41, PART 1, pages 85–100 2002
- Infidelity: The Lessons Children Learn by Jennifer Harley Chalmers, PhD
- Professor Kristina Gordon's research into infidelity and betrayal
- Cybersex and Infidelity Online: Implications for Evaluation and Treatment by Kimberly S. Young, Alvin Cooper, Eric Griffiths-Shelley, James O'Mara, and Jennifer Buchanan Paper Published in Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity, 7 (10, 59–74, 200
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